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12 Hard-Hitting Truths Learned from Breakups
Faraz Ali
July 2nd, 2024
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Breakups can be brutal, but they also offer valuable lessons that can shape our future relationships and personal growth. Here are some hard-hitting truths people often learn after a breakup:
1. Don't Apologize When You Should Stand Up for Yourself
Know when to say "f*ck you" and move on instead of apologizing for someone else's wrongdoings.
2. Insecurity Stems from Knowing Someone Deserves Better
People become insecure when they realize their partner deserves someone better.
3. You Can't Force Love
It's not up to you to convince someone to keep loving you - it's their decision.
4. You Might Be the Problem
Consider the possibility that you're the one causing the issues.
5. Priorities Don't Change
If you're not a priority now, you never will be.
6. Chaos Only Postpones Peace
The longer you tolerate chaos, the longer you delay finding peace.
7. Hate Without Reason
Some people will hate you without being able to name a single thing you did wrong.
8. Don't Settle for Potential
Don't stay in a relationship with someone who isn't meeting you where you are now, just because you see potential.
9. Power Dynamics
The person who wants the relationship the least has the most power.
10. Red Flags Matter
If you see a red flag early on, raise your white flag and move on.
11. Behavior Post-Breakup Reveals Truth
Observe how your ex behaves after the breakup - it's telling.
12. Great People Can Be Wrong for You
Someone can be a great person and a good partner, but still not be the right person for you.
These lessons may be tough to swallow, but they'll help you grow and navigate future relationships with more wisdom and self-awareness.
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